A little known secret that gives players an edge over other types of men is how they use touch to bring women into their would. Because of feminism and sexual harassment, the average man is afraid to touch a woman at all before she gives very clear permission or initiates touch first. A lot of men fear being seen as creeps or pervert. But using touch correctly is really all in the timing. Sticking to conversation and avoiding any physical contact with a woman puts a man at a great disadvantage since women are a lot more compliant with their bodies than their ears. You heard right! A woman will reject the spoken word faster than any attempt at physical contact.

There are many great examples of this phenomenon and I’ve experienced it many times. As recently as one week ago I saw this very phenomenon in action again. I was at the bar chatting up a cute girl. I invited her to hit the dance floor with me and she told me she was too tired and had no interest in dancing. I pushed the subject some more and she didn’t budge. Finally I just said: “Come on, just one song” and I grabbed her hand, pulling her onto the dance floor. She didn’t resist at all. In fact she seemed to change her mind on the spot once I made physical contact. Why? Because I stopped asking for permission and just took what I wanted. This is a huge turn on to most women. We didn’t just dance for one song, we danced for five. She was grinding on my cock like there was no tomorrow.

This is another reason why you never ask a woman if you can kiss her or bang her. You just DO IT. The weakest thing a man can say to a woman is: “I really like you” followed by no action. Women are attracted to action. This is why women use more words per day than men. Women are the talkers and men are the doers. When you say: “I really like you” to a woman without taking any action, she is probably thinking something along the lines of “So what are you going to do about it???!!!”

Don’t talk… take action. DO something.

As a man looking for fast access to vagina, its best to get physical fast so that she subconsciously flags you as a “sexy” man rather than a “provider” or “BFF”. You want to enter her world as a dominant man who means business and knows what he wants. Nothing is sexier.

There is something about physical touch that just makes a woman feel closer to you. Touch is also tied closer to a woman’s memory than any conversation. A woman will remember drunkenly making out with or sleeping with some random guy more than she’ll remember a drunken conversation she had with some random guy.

When using touch, it’s important to build up gradually. If you just met her and you’re trying to pick her up, make sure you touch her hand or lower arm at some point in the conversation to make her feel closer to you. The increase in compliance I get from touching women is like night and day.

One important thing to remember is timing. Obviously you should get a conversation going first and make sure the woman is responsive to you and at least vaguely interested. Never touch rude, bitchy or difficult women. You’ll just make the situation worse. I’ve experienced this through trial and error. But you should never miss an opportunity to touch a woman you’re trying to seduce.