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Do you think most men who get a lot of sex, either get it regularly from a gf or from a bunch of ugly women?
It might not be personally relevant to you but I just wanted to see some other people’s views on the subject. You write a blog I like so why not ask you. You mentioned a player secret where you wrote ‘[G]ood “game” is less about being attractive to ALL women and more about being attractive to a target market of women.’ In this case, said targets are either the gf or ugly women. I just wanted to open up a discussion (maybe you can talk about this idea in the future.)
Is it safe to say the only men getting anything regular with attractive women are men with money, power, fame or any combination thereof?
All women want a man who is “better than them” based on her perception of “better”. He can be “better” in looks, status, money, experience, etc. It depends on the woman and what she wants. If she wants a father figure, she will target older men. If she wants status she will target flashy men. If she wants great sex she will target players. If she wants money she will target rich men, etc. If you want to date women who are better looking than yourself, you’ll need to make her believe you are “better than her” in some other way. Smarter, richer, higher status, etc. Very attractive women are not hard to bang if they’re sluts and you have the right game/look/vibe. But they have to be sluts (which is the case with most women).
I’ve read a lot, and I mean a lot, and your writings rank up with the top 3: Chateau Heartiste, Black Flag Chronicles. I can’t believe there are not 200 comments per article. Highly developed stuff – I compliment you on it
Thanks for reading Mark. I appreciate the compliment. My goal is to enlighten as many men as possible.
Once again, outstanding blog. I purchased both your books and will get the next one if you choose to write another. If you have any insights on managing girls of different races and ethnicities perhaps you can share them. I’m a white guy and have mostly had my fun with white girls but let’s face it…demographics are changing. In my area (DC region) a large percentage of the woman pool I usually dip into is hooking up with people of other backgrounds and everyday I’m getting mad signals from black and latino girls. Now, I got no issues enjoying other flavors but it seems to me that I need slight adjustments in my game when going after these girls. If you have any observations on this I hope you’ll share.
Thanks bro…Al
Thanks for reading Alan! Yeah, the DC area is very diverse and there is a lot of racial mixing. Kind of like NYC. How you adjust your game depends on what you want. Are you just looking for sex or a girlfriend? Be aware that a lot of non-white women view white guys as “tricks” so make sure you don’t fall into the trap of blowing lots of money to impress them. Overall, it really depends on the cultural difference. A Latina girl who is very traditional will not be slutty for instance. She will want the relationship before giving up the pussy. An American born Latina girl might act just like a typical white girl. The same goes for Black and Asian girls. The main tip I can give you is don’t be corny. Black and Latin girls usually have less tolerance for nerds and dorks.