Emotional decisions are usually idiotic decisions. It’s pretty easy to create a long list of really bad decisions people have made in history and find the cause behind those decisions to be emotions. Emotions are one of the biggest motivators of human behavior. Emotion in any form will cloud your judgment, not just the bad ones. The key to manipulating, conning or seducing people is all based on stimulating their emotions the right way.
But no one wants to live life as a robot, so it’s something we just have to deal with. This can be tricky for a player for many reasons. That’s why it’s so important for a player to truly know and understand himself as much as possible. As a player, you can’t afford to make idiotic decisions, so you can’t afford to get too emotional. A player stays in control by allowing women to get emotional while he remains indifferent or detached (on the inside).
A man who wishes to become a player needs to be honest with himself (even if he lies to everyone else). Don’t tell yourself you want to be a player if you know deep down you really want a deep committed relationship with one woman. Some men become players as a sort of “revenge” against the female gender for all the pain they’ve gone through.
Becoming a player for emotional reasons is not a good idea. Don’t ever make serious life decisions based on emotions! I know society, the media and female propaganda promote embracing your emotions, but as a man it’s a stupid idea to let emotions dictate your life.
What I’m about to say will be highly offensive to some, but it needs to be said: Jumping in front of a bullet to protect your girlfriend is idiotic. Sorry!
Society promotes the idea of the “expendable male”. Heck, we even have two movies with that very title about a bunch of macho men. It’s easy to let peer pressure and society pressure stimulate your emotions enough to guide you into making decisions that are just plain stupid when looked at objectively (like jumping in front of a bullet for your girlfriend). The only argument to support jumping in front of a bullet for your girlfriend is an emotional argument. Obviously.
All the women who were protected by their brave boyfriends during the Batman shooting are now single. This means they are free to bang other dudes while their boyfriends are under 6 feet of dirt. Just sayin’.
At this point in reading you’re probably getting a little emotional, whether you agree with me or not; and guess what? That’s the point! I want you to experience how easily emotions can sneak up on you and take over your brain. If you want to be a player, you have to be prepared. Emotions can strike at any time without warning.
With all that said, emotions are a very sneaky mothef*cker (as you just experienced I hope) and you can’t always help developing feelings for a woman or even falling in love. It’s not really a choice. Because of this, a player should always have what I like to call “player insurance” or a “safety net”. What that basically means is, having lots of back up women. Here is how it works: The second you meet a woman you start to actually “like” you should IMMIDIATELY start doing everything you can to seduce several OTHER women.
Why? Emotions! That’s why!!
Once a woman gets to you emotionally, she can create a mental fog which causes you to gradually change your behavior and become somewhat obsessed with her. You can call it “temporary insanity” and my people have described love or infatuation to be just that. Your heart and your penis basically lock your brain in jail and you can’t really help yourself. This is a very dangerous place for a player to be. While the “high” you get feels great at the time, the fall can be very devastating later.
More than likely, the “fall” will eventually happen; especially if you’re a younger guy (teens or 20’s). She will dump you, cheat on you, abuse you, whatever. Women often fall out of love faster than men (for reasons I will explain in my next article). Women are also turned off by weak men they can control and being in love has a way of making a man more spineless than he would normally be. I think every man should experience the pain of heartbreak at least once. It’s a good reality check and it snaps you out of your delusional view of relationships.
Now, when this “fall” from your fairy tale “high” finally comes, do you want to fall on rocks or do you want to fall on something soft and comforting? I think the answer is pretty obvious! This is where “player insurance” comes in!! Those women in your life you seduced earlier who still want you badly are likely jealous of your girlfriend and will come rushing to your aid to comfort you. They will bang you and be your rebound while you heal. Look at what’s happening right now with Robert Pattinson. He is like a hero and women love him even more after he got cheated on by Kristen Stewart. This is what I’m talking about.
Without that “player insurance” you’ll fall flat on your face in a cold dark world of self-pity and depression. Your male friends will try to cheer you up and get you drunk, but it won’t have the same regenerative effect of a rebound relationship. Men are said to be lonelier after break ups than women. So a man with no options, a shattered ego, and depression won’t have the strength to “get back in the game” right away and seduce women like he did before; at least not until he heals. The women need to be there already, waiting to pounce on him!
Women have the luxury of always having guys around chasing them, so they can rebound easily. Men have to court women, so it’s best to have some spare women around to break your fall if you find yourself getting “emotional” about a woman. Insure yourself by getting those back-up women in line the second you start having feelings for ANY woman you’re sleeping with. You won’t regret it.