Emotional decisions are usually idiotic decisions. It’s pretty easy to create a long list of really bad decisions people have made in history and find the cause behind those decisions to be emotions. Emotions are one of the biggest motivators of human behavior. Emotion in any form will cloud your judgment, not just the bad ones. The key to manipulating, conning or seducing people is all based on stimulating their emotions the right way.

But no one wants to live life as a robot, so it’s something we just have to deal with. This can be tricky for a player for many reasons. That’s why it’s so important for a player to truly know and understand himself as much as possible. As a player, you can’t afford to make idiotic decisions, so you can’t afford to get too emotional. A player stays in control by allowing women to get emotional while he remains indifferent or detached (on the inside).

Be Prepared!!

A man who wishes to become a player needs to be honest with himself (even if he lies to everyone else). Don’t tell yourself you want to be a player if you know deep down you really want a deep committed relationship with one woman. Some men become players as a sort of “revenge” against the female gender for all the pain they’ve gone through.

Becoming a player for emotional reasons is not a good idea. Don’t ever make serious life decisions based on emotions! I know society, the media and female propaganda promote embracing your emotions, but as a man it’s a stupid idea to let emotions dictate your life.

What I’m about to say will be highly offensive to some, but it needs to be said: Jumping in front of a bullet to protect your girlfriend is idiotic. Sorry!

Society promotes the idea of the “expendable male”. Heck, we even have two movies with that very title about a bunch of macho men. It’s easy to let peer pressure and society pressure stimulate your emotions enough to guide you into making decisions that are just plain stupid when looked at objectively (like jumping in front of a bullet for your girlfriend). The only argument to support jumping in front of a bullet for your girlfriend is an emotional argument. Obviously.

All the women who were protected by their brave boyfriends during the Batman shooting are now single. This means they are free to bang other dudes while their boyfriends are under 6 feet of dirt. Just sayin’.

At this point in reading you’re probably getting a little emotional, whether you agree with me or not; and guess what? That’s the point! I want you to experience how easily emotions can sneak up on you and take over your brain. If you want to be a player, you have to be prepared. Emotions can strike at any time without warning.

Player “Insurance”

With all that said, emotions are a very sneaky mothef*cker (as you just experienced I hope) and you can’t always help developing feelings for a woman or even falling in love. It’s not really a choice. Because of this, a player should always have what I like to call “player insurance” or a “safety net”. What that basically means is, having lots of back up women. Here is how it works: The second you meet a woman you start to actually “like” you should IMMIDIATELY start doing everything you can to seduce several OTHER women.

Why? Emotions! That’s why!!

Once a woman gets to you emotionally, she can create a mental fog which causes you to gradually change your behavior and become somewhat obsessed with her. You can call it “temporary insanity” and my people have described love or infatuation to be just that. Your heart and your penis basically lock your brain in jail and you can’t really help yourself. This is a very dangerous place for a player to be.  While the “high” you get feels great at the time, the fall can be very devastating later.

More than likely, the “fall” will eventually happen; especially if you’re a younger guy (teens or 20’s). She will dump you, cheat on you, abuse you, whatever. Women often fall out of love faster than men (for reasons I will explain in my next article). Women are also turned off by weak men they can control and being in love has a way of making a man more spineless than he would normally be. I think every man should experience the pain of heartbreak at least once. It’s a good reality check and it snaps you out of your delusional view of relationships.

Now, when this “fall” from your fairy tale “high” finally comes, do you want to fall on rocks or do you want to fall on something soft and comforting? I think the answer is pretty obvious! This is where “player insurance” comes in!! Those women in your life you seduced earlier who still want you badly are likely jealous of your girlfriend and will come rushing to your aid to comfort you. They will bang you and be your rebound while you heal. Look at what’s happening right now with Robert Pattinson. He is like a hero and women love him even more after he got cheated on by Kristen Stewart. This is what I’m talking about.

Without that “player insurance” you’ll fall flat on your face in a cold dark world of self-pity and depression. Your male friends will try to cheer you up and get you drunk, but it won’t have the same regenerative effect of a rebound relationship. Men are said to be lonelier after break ups than women. So a man with no options, a shattered ego, and depression won’t have the strength to “get back in the game” right away and seduce women like he did before; at least not until he heals. The women need to be there already, waiting to pounce on him!

Women have the luxury of always having guys around chasing them, so they can rebound easily. Men have to court women, so it’s best to have some spare women around to break your fall if you find yourself getting “emotional” about a woman. Insure yourself by getting those back-up women in line the second you start having feelings for ANY woman you’re sleeping with. You won’t regret it.

With summer ending and many young adults heading back to school, I think it’s only fitting to cover this topic. While my college experience is already a few years behind me, I think it’s still necessary to prepare newbies for the experience. The earlier you learn to be a player the better. Here is an idea of what to expect and what to do in your first years of independence:

The Dating Hierarchy

Just like high school and most structured environments, College has a hierarchy where certain men attract the most girls while the rest have fewer options. In fact, it’s not much different from high school. The main edge college provides is people become more adventurous and take more risks. For the first time in their lives, they’re parents aren’t constantly looking over their shoulder.

Outside of the typical cliques like the jocks, nerds, stoners, thugs, etc. The men with the most dating options are the 21+ crowd:

Seniors & Juniors > Sophomores & Freshmen

Going in as a Freshman is the worst position because women generally like to date up. They usually target men who are older, more experienced and more connected.

College Girls

When it comes to dating in college, you usually only have two options:

1. Random hook-ups
2. Serious Relationships

Since everyone basically lives, works and studies in the same place… dating multiple girls is almost impossible. You never know when you will run into the girls you’re dating on campus, in your building, at a friend’s place, in the cafeteria, in the library, etc. The only way to date multiple girls while living on campus is to date girls from other schools or who are not in school. This is usually more trouble than it’s worth. So decide if you want a girlfriend or lots of random drunken sex because those are really your main options.

How To Get Lots Of Hook-Ups

If your goal is lots of hook-ups, the answer is simple: make friends with guys who party a lot. If your roommate(s) is a dud, do your best to locate wild and crazy guys who like to party. Make friends with them and party with them as often as possible. In most cases, you’ll meet girls at their parties and get opportunities to bang those girls.

Being friends with party guys also has the advantage of making you look like a fun guy yourself. People generally judge you by who you associate with. So do your best to associate with the types of men who project the image you want to project to women. Use your entourage of fun male friends to boost your status. Since you’ll always have a party to go too or event to attend, you’ll have no problem closing girls you meet on campus by inviting them to stuff. You can make regular small talk and then say:

“By the way, my friends/roommates are throwing a huge party Thursday night. Let me have your number so I can text you the details. You can bring your friends.” (If you can say YOU are throwing the party, even better.)

The best game plan for the fall semester is to approach lots and lots of girls. Talk to every single girl you are attracted to. Since most people live on campus, most of these girls will be around for the entire semester. Therefore, there is no reason to rush! Don’t worry about “hanging out” or getting a number from them right away. Just approach lots of girls, make friendly small talk and leave it at that. Once you develop your social network of fun male friends who party a lot, you’ll have the opportunity to “run into” these SAME girls you approached days or weeks earlier and invite them to these parties after some friendly chit-chat. EASY.

How To Get A Girlfriend

The easiest way to get a serious girlfriend in college is to do everything I suggested above first. Over time you’ll meet loads of girls and have lots of opportunities to bang them. Out of the girls you meet and/or bang, pay attention to the ones who seem more into you; The ones who clearly want more than a hook-up. Spend time with these girls and discover if you really like them. If you do, then date them. EASY.

College is one of the easiest environments in the world to date because:

1. Everyone is 18-23 and basically in the same situation
2. College girls are very open to adventure
3. Most college girls are either looking for sex or a boyfriend
4. People experimenting with drugs and alcohol for the first time will get crazy

College is a blast and truly the easiest and fastest moving dating environment I have ever experienced. It will never be easier than now (unless you become rich and famous later). Don’t waste the opportunity.

You can find more pick-up tips in The Lothario Boot Camp and powerful relationship and dating advice in The Lothario Upper Hand.

There are two ways for a player to get into a woman’s pants:

1.    Fast Seduction
2.    Slow Seduction

Fast & Bold Moves

Everyone knows fast seduction. It’s the way of the sexy, powerful and confident man. You make bold sexual comments, flirt shamelessly, and basically drag her into bed.

While this is the fastest way to sleep with a woman, it’s also the most risky. If a woman is attracted to you right away, it will work great, but if a woman isn’t won over yet, you will crash and burn. Plus, you probably won’t get another chance with that woman. This is the short term approach you use for one night stands and spontaneous sex with random women you meet. If all you want is casual sex, stick with fast seduction to save time and energy.

Powerful Baby Steps

Slow seduction is the most powerful and dangerous form of seduction. If done on the wrong person, it can lead to obsession. If you’ve ever seen the movie Fatal Attraction you know what can happen in extreme cases. So you’ve been warned.

Anyway, slow seduction allows you to slowly build up to sex by making a woman who isn’t that interested in you change course. This is accomplished by taking a stealth approach to seduction. When it’s done right, you’ll be taking baby steps toward your goal in such a smooth way that a woman doesn’t realize what’s happening until she’s on her back. This is the strategy for creating intense passion and desire.

At first, the player will not seem all that interested. He will approach her in an easy and casual way. He will seem harmless and friendly so the woman won’t suspect anything. Next, he will make small requests that seem innocent. He might invite her to a party, invite her to see an art show, invite her to attend an event.

He will keep his emotional distance and focus on filling her mind with entertaining stories, facts, experiences and ideas that, in the future, will all remind her of HIM.

It’s guerrilla warfare for dating. The player is slowly isolating her from her normal routines and becoming a strong presence in her life. He is giving her pleasure and memorable experiences that make her think about him constantly. He does all this without asking for anything in return. He works as a constant source of pleasure for her, making her feel like the most interesting and amazing person in the world. At the same time, he stays detached enough to be a challenge. Also, by not seeming to want anything in return (sex), it makes him all the more elusive and desirable.

Eventually she becomes sexually attracted to him. She wants to date him and sleep with him. She might even fall in love with him. He has seduced her mind and her body.

What happens now? Have you guessed it yet?

Now that he has finally conquered her mind and her body he quickly withdraws. He becomes less available, less charming, less interested. He only gives her scraps of what he gave before. Confused and insecure, she reacts by chasing him and doing everything to please him. Her attempts at this only give short term results. He continues to be hot and cold with her while she keeps chasing after him to get the relationship she had with him before. But she never does.

Ever see that guy that makes everyone ask: “Why is she with him?? Why does she put up with his crap and abuse? How did he even get a woman that attractive?” The answer is through slow seduction. It will work on almost anyone if you have the skills, detachment and patience to execute it.

A Word of Caution

If you choose to use slow seduction to get a woman into bed, it’s best not to dump her right after you sleep with her. That kind of behavior is what can lead to Fatal Attraction situations in extreme cases. Drag the relationship out for at least a month if you know you have no intention of sticking around. It might be annoying, but it’s worth avoiding the headache of a scorned woman.

Slow seduction is best for getting a relationship. Once the relationship is formed, you can back off and let her chase you and treat you like a king. Slow seduction is ideal for getting a relationship in which you are not “whipped” by the girl. It allows you to have more control and power.

In addition to all the tips offered on this blog and in my first book The Lothario Upper Hand, I’d like to officially announce the newest addition to my Lothario book series called The Lothario Boot Camp & Pick-Up Guide. This book focuses exclusively on PUA techniques for meeting and attracting women. Its primarily a boot camp to help you conquer approach anxiety and maximize your efficiency. In addition to all the openers and conversation topics, you’ll get loads of tips on timing, locations, and days of the week to maximize your success.

The book is designed to let you start approaching women 5 pages in. Everything after page 8 is text book information to help you along the way. Both books together are very powerful.

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I briefly touched on the subject of DHV (demonstrating High Value) here when I suggested dressing up. The point of that technique is to save you time and allow you to go straight to engaging a woman and building attraction. However, once you’ve started the conversation, the woman will forget about your clothes and focus more on your personality. For this reason, it’s also a good idea to show some value right before you close and ask for her number.

Life Through An Attractive Woman’s Eyes

Attractive women view most men the way normal people view panhandlers and fast talking salesmen. When she gets hit on from random men on the street or in bars, her first reaction is the same as our first reaction to someone trying to beg on the street:

“Great, another person wasting my time with their hand out and offering me nothing”.

That’s the problem. While we all like to think of ourselves as decent people, we also like to give to others on our own terms. We get irritated when someone we don’t know approaches us out of the blue and has the nerve to ask for a favor.

As a player you have to keep this in mind. Picture how a panhandler operates compared to a person handing out tickets for a free contest. How would you react if you’re walking down the street and someone approaches you by saying:

“Hey, you can win $5,000 if you fill out this form and give me your email address”

Now compare that to:

“Hey, do you like children? Thousands of them are dying every day in Africa and they need your help!!”

See how it’s much better when people approach you and actually OFFER SOMETHING? As a player you have to find ways to imply to the women you’re approaching that they stand to gain something. You have to convince them you are providing them with an opportunity and you’re not just some creep trying to get into their pants.

Offer What She Is Seeking

A very common mistake men make in their dating attempts is forgetting that women are selfish. No woman is going to date you just because you’re nice to her or flirted with her a little. She needs to feel she has something to gain or she will not go out with you. Simple as that. This is another reason why you can do the same approach with 10 different women and get 10 different reactions. Some will be interested and others will shut you down. It comes down to what you have that she wants. If all she wants is casual sex, she will respond differently than if she wants someone to pay her bills or someone to travel the world and eat in nice restaurants with.

There are three main qualities you can never go wrong with:

1.    Class and Status
2.    A confident, sexy and witty personality
3.    Good looks, height and physical strength

If you have one or more of these qualities, do your best to advertise them when talking to women. Number 3 does the work for you.

In addition to your personality traits, you need to seem like you offer even more. Seem to offer something else that is less tangible and accessible to her. It should be something that will get her excited to meet you again. It needs to be something mysterious or grand that you hint at to make her curious.  I give actual examples in my book The Lothario Upper Hand.

Thinking it’s your job as a man to satisfy a woman and make her content with her life is a big mistake. Some men will go out of their way to rescue her from all her problems and find solutions to all her complaints. He will try to live up to her expectations and desires. In reality, this is a waste of time. It’s been said many times that “women are never satisfied” and this is completely true.

If your goal is to be the man that makes her happy and rescues her from her life of disappointment, hardship, bad relationships, or general unhappiness, you’re setting yourself up for failure. As a player, you simply don’t have the time for this. All you’ll do is stress yourself out and find yourself running around like a decapitated chicken. In order to play the numbers game and date multiple women at once, you have to conserve your time and energy!

Here are the two main reasons why trying to satisfy women is a big mistake:

1: It’s Impossible

Just like I said in the intro and many men have said before: “Women are never satisfied”. So why would you want to set yourself up to fail? The best you can do is excite a woman or give her temporary satisfaction. She will never be permanently satisfied or content with anything you do or any situation you create. Why? Because humans are never satisfied with anything for long. We are goal oriented by nature and when we have no goal to chase we become bored and unhappy.

The Player’s Alternative

Instead of trying to satisfy a woman, a player becomes a goal for her to accomplish instead. We’ve all seen the abusive jerk boyfriend who treats his woman like dirt, yet she never breaks up with him. People always jump to the conclusion that she has low self-esteem and that’s the only reason she tolerates such treatment. That’s part of it, but not all of it.

Part of why women stay with jerks is because they are chasing after something. I discussed this here. Basically, the more people invest their time and energy into something, the harder it is to give up on it. As a player, you have to be like the person who dangles a string in front of a cat and yanks it away just before the cat can grab it. Make her anticipate the future by slowly moving towards fulfilling her dreams, then pull back at the last minute.

Keep her anticipating the future, but never make her dreams a reality. She needs to always have something to look forward too. As long as she believes the future with you has potential to be bright, she’ll stick around and continue fighting and waiting for it. She will only give up if she sees no hope in sight for change or improvement.

It’s much easier to let a woman exhaust herself chasing a dream than for you to exhaust yourself creating the reality (a reality she will quickly get bored with).

2: You Don’t Have The Time

Women need a lot of attention and affection. Keeping a woman happy can be a full time job and in some cases, it can become so demanding that it takes over your entire life.

As a player, you’ll have lots of women in your life competing for your love, affection, attention, etc. On top of that, you still have to live your life. You have your family, friends, career and personal things to deal with as well. If you make it your goal to make sure every woman you date (even if it’s just one) is happy and content at all times, you’ll have no time for anything else. Even worse, you’ll have no energy leftover to meet other women and deal with your life outside of that relationship.

The Player’s Alternative

To be a good player you need to conserve time and energy. This means keeping women coming back for more, but never giving them so much that you get trapped in a cycle of high investment. But most importantly, you need to keep every woman in your life excited about your next move. You need to keep them in suspense. This is the only way to juggle multiple women without exhausting yourself.

Tell them you want to move slowly and make sure you tell them your job requires lots of traveling. This creates a buffer zone of time and space for you to take care of other business and make the moves you need to make. When you’re getting ready to disappear from a woman’s life for a short period of time so you can handle other business, always try to leave on a high note so she can count down the days before she sees you again. A good example is saying something like:

“I have to go out of town for work. I’ll be gone for five days, but when I get back I want to take you to a concert to see your favorite band.”

Be careful with the words you use. It’s always better to say: “I want to” or “I’d love to” instead of “I’m going to.” Its also good to make future plans vague without being too specific about times and dates. Give yourself the flexibility to flake out later if you have to. Keep all the women in your life on sandby whenever possible so you can come and go as you please.

It’s no coincidence that many of the behaviors women encourage and support in men, are the very behaviors that bring men the most misery. The majority of men who get repeatedly screwed over, used and abused by women are usually men who buy into modern female propaganda. I say “modern female” because this propaganda comes mostly from liberated modern women and western media, which generally supports the liberated female agenda.

As a player you must learn to drown out all this “noise” and not allow it to distract you from your goals. In other words, don’t allow women and “white knight” males to guilt trip or manipulate you out of living the lifestyle you want. Remember that 9 times out of 10, when someone wants you to change your behavior, it’s usually for their own benefit, not yours. So don’t be manipulated. Here is some popular female propaganda you should ignore:

Any Statement That Starts With: “Real Men”

Often modern women and male “white knights” will try to humiliate you into changing your behavior by claiming that “real men” don’t behave the way you do.

Examples:

“Real men are chivalrous”

“Real men respect women.”

“Real men are providers”

There are a million of these. I can go on forever.

Why You Should Ignore It

As a player, there is only one of these I agree with:

“Real men don’t follow other people’s rules (outside of the law and job responsibilities).”

Never let some woman or “white knight” tell you who or what a real man is. What makes them the authority on it? They are entitled to their opinion just like everyone else. But their opinion is worthless to a player. A real man is a winner who gets results in my opinion. Focus more on not sucking at life and less on who or what other people want you to be.

Married Men Live Longer & Happier Lives

Something about men who are happy being single makes women very uncomfortable and even fearful. Almost as if they’ve learned a big secret that will doom women if it gets out to the majority of men. This discomfort makes them do damage control with statements like: “Married men live longer and happier lives.”

One funny thing about the emergence of this claim is how it started right after men started coming out against marriage. Unfair divorce laws, 50% divorce rates, sexless marriages and lazy nagging wives led a good number of men to question the value of marriage.

Men began to realize they can get all the benefits of marriage (and sometimes more) without getting married in the first place. You don’t need marriage to be in an exclusive relationship. You don’t need marriage to have sex. You don’t need marriage to have kids. So what do you need it for? It’s often said: “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?”

Why You Should Ignore It

You should ignore it simply because its bullsh*t like most statistics. First of all, a longer life does not mean a better life. Animals in the zoo live longer than animals in the wild. But most animals would prefer roaming free over being in a giant cage their entire life. Furthermore, these claims are “on average” which means there are many single men who live longer and happier lives than married ones.

Finally, that claim only holds water if a man stays married and dies before his wife. Generally, divorced people die younger as well as people who lose a partner to death. Remember the divorce rate is 50%. So in the end, you’re better off staying single than getting married and divorced later or getting married and losing your wife to death. Overall, the entire thing is a wash and should not be taken seriously.

Using Women For Sex Is Wrong

Most women hate the idea of men having the upper hand in any romantic relationship. What they hate even more is when men can get sex from women without commitment. Anytime a man tells a woman he likes her and charms her into bed, only to disappear forever the next day, women cry foul.

Why You Should Ignore It

This goes with the false idea that women are always the victims in romantic relationships. I discussed it here. As a player you should accept that all is fair in love and war. You are not responsible for a woman’s happiness. I discussed that here.

If a woman is over 18 she is considered an adult. Adults make their own decisions for better or worse. If a woman chooses to jump in bed with a man because he says he is a doctor… that’s her problem. Sex is not a commodity and you’re not obligated to a woman simply because she gave you access to her vagina. Just like how a woman is not obligated to sleep with you simply because you paid for her dinner. Outside of marriage and kids, you are free to leave any relationship at any time for any reason. She has the same freedom.

Furthermore, sex is a give and take activity. Both people are engaging in it, so it’s not really possible for anyone to get used unless they are sleeping through it.

Any Sentence That Starts With: “If You Loved Me, You Would…”

When women have unreasonable demands in a relationship that they can’t really justify, they often resort to manipulation to force the man into giving in. It’s based on the premise that a man in love has no boundaries and is willing to do anything and everything for the object of his desire. It’s basically designed to trap a man by suggesting that his unwillingness to please her is connected with disinterest. He must prove his love by giving into her highly unreasonable request.

Why You Should Ignore It

You should ignore it simply because it’s as ridiculous as it sounds. It is a sh*t test for lack of a better word. I discuss in detail how to deal with these tests in my book The Lothario Upper Hand. When a woman does this she is testing for weakness. She wants to see how much crap you’ll put up with. As a player you should never be trying to prove yourself to a woman in the first place.

Couples Should Share Everything (Email passwords, Bank Accounts, etc.)

Some women expect full disclosure from men. They want to know everything about you so they can make an educated decision about your market value. She also wants access to as much private information about you she can find so she can feel more secure. She wants to know where you are at all times and who you’re interacting with. She also wants access to your money so she can take it as needed.

Why You Should Ignore It

Only a control freak needs full disclosure and unlimited access. Simple as that. Common sense should tell you to NEVER give anyone enough private access or information about yourself to screw you over. Never give a woman your passwords, credit card or social security number.

A player wins in seduction because he protects himself at all costs. Women will use various forms of manipulation and intimidation to get you to disclose more and give more. A player never falls for it. There is no shame in protecting yourself. You can call it “paranoia” or “lack of trust” all you want. In the end, it’s worth it.

Remaining mysterious and independent is a very attractive and sexy quality in a man. It also gives you power because it keeps women working harder to possess you. Wanting access to your secrets will give her something to fight for and chase after.

The funniest part of modern female propaganda is the hypocrisy. All women have secrets they NEVER share with the men in their lives. I discuss this here under “Women Are Attracted To The Taboo”. The more disclosure a woman wants from you, the more secrets she probably has herself.

It’s what makes you a man and ultimately what makes you attractive. If you don’t have balls, you can’t be a successful player or seducer. As a man, fear is your worst enemy in seduction because it keeps you from taking advantage of great opportunities that present themselves. It also makes a man ugly and unattractive in a woman’s eyes. If a woman senses you fear her, she will lose all sexual interest.

If you don’t already have balls, then you need to develop some. Throwing yourself to the wolves is the best way. To be a sexy and attractive man, you have to be a rebel on some level, even if it’s subtle and not immediately apparent to others. It just needs to be in the air that you’re not a pussy. It’s really an aura of confidence and fearlessness (and it’s easy to fake).

Simply put, a man that never rocks the boat is not a sexy man. He is a boring man; a weak man; a fearful man. As a player you must train yourself to rock the boat and rebel sometimes, even if it makes some people uncomfortable or upset. Never be afraid to do things like:

Creating Jealously

Even after you’ve landed yourself an attractive woman, the last thing you should do is totally submit to her. Don’t let her drag you around and intimidate you out of meeting and talking with other women. In fact, you should never stop talking to other women and don’t be afraid to take a good look at any woman you find attractive. Just because she is giving you access to her vagina, that doesn’t mean she owns your eyeballs.

This attitude will make her angry, BUT it will also keep her in check. It will make her jealous and remind her she has competition (this is why she hates it). Feelings of jealously actually arouse women and make them more attracted to you. It gives her something to fight for. She needs it to feel like she has a man of value.

This is also why you need to keep female friends and acquaintances. The fact that other women want you only makes you appear more valuable. No one wants something that no one else wants.

Breaking Her Rules

Women love to make “rules” in relationships. The more you’re willing to follow her rules the weaker and less masculine you appear. When women make rules they are actually luring you into a trap. They know they have your nuts in a vice if you’re willing to fall in line and follow all their rules like a soldier in the military. If you break her rules she gets mad at you and it starts a fight. However, in the end, you’ll come out looking a lot more attractive by showing BALLS.

Deep down, women resent weak men and often get a kick out of torturing them. With every hoop you jump through she will add another one and light it on fire. She will push you to your limit if you allow it. It’s best not to let it start.

Once you continue to break her rules and make it clear to her that you can’t be controlled by sex and manipulation, she will eventually just submit to you. Why? Because she will finally trust you to lead the relationship. She will believe you have strong inner values that can’t be easily swayed. She’ll know that if she can’t control you, then no other woman can either. You’re a REAL man.

Deep down, every woman wants to be with a man stronger than herself. If she can’t find one, she might settle for a weaker man, but she will resent and abuse him for the duration of the relationship (and with no guilt).

Walking Away

It’s really that simple. Once a woman becomes too difficult you should simply leave. I follow the 2/3 ratio for all relationships. This means for every two bad things about the relationship, there must be at least three good things. Overall the relationship must be satisfying more often than it is unsatisfying. Once it moves to being dead even or it slips into being mostly unsatisfying, you should walk away. I don’t care how hot she is, how big her boobs are, or how good she is in bed.

A player always has a plan B. You should be walking away from one woman at the same time you are walking into the arms (and legs) of another.